From ‘dirty knicker’ fantasy forums to live video chats – and even the opportunity to review your lover after you’ve slept with them, there’s a lot to be found on Fab Swingers – Sun Online writer Almara Abgarian signed up
JOHNNY grins as he reads his latest review: “Good performance, girth and stamina – I loved it and I’m ready for round two.”
Johnny is one of 200,000 people who log on to the UK’s kinkiest sex website Fab Swingers every day to hook up with other men, women and even couples – and with at least 25,000 people online at any given time he is rarely disappointed.
Last night he met up with a couple and had sex with the wife while the husband watched on – he said it was his deepest fantasy.
I’m not a swinger, but I’ve signed up to see what it’s all about – and within the first few hours I already feel welcome – 238 people have viewed my profile and I received over 100 direct messages within the first six minutes – most of them d**k pics.
It’s flattering, especially given I’ve only included a picture of my face, while most of the other women and men on Fab Swingers share explicit nudity including close-ups of boobs and bums in sexy lingerie.
It’s like Facebook, but with an infusion of sex – you have your own profile, tell people your sexual interests – most include dogging, cuckolding, group sex – and can like photos, send messages become friends.
Delving deeper into the community, reading kinky stories about dirty panties and abduction fantasies, and declining the offer of one gentleman asking if he could perform oral sex on me after I had sex with someone else – it becomes clear swingers are bold – and not afraid to be filthy.
One woman, who calls herself a ‘yummy mummy’, tells other swingers how she had sex with her friend Amy’s dad and brother all in the same military cupid hesap silme night.
I scroll down further and there’s mention of diaper play – a nappy fetish – granny fetishes and a fantasy of a ‘wife forced to keep customers happy’.
Much like Facebook, it’s easy to navigate – but before new members such as myself can begin exploring, each person needs to create a profile with the basics: age, gender, sexuality and preferences, body type and whether they smoke, have tattoos or piercings.
And, whether you’re signing up as a single person or couple you also need to upload a photo of yourself, holding a piece of paper with Fab Swingers written on it, in order to verify the profile and not get kicked off the site.
Once you’re in you can browse other profiles, hop onto a live cam chat or browse dirty pics in the gallery.
For eager users, the same-day search is a popular feature that allows you to browse listings of times and places to meet in the next 12 hours – there’s currently over 300 members advertising for people to get freaky with.
You can also send friend requests an add people to your personal ‘Hot List’ – which is a bit like a top friends list, for people you fancy and want to speak to regularly.
Once you start meeting up with like-minded lovers, they can verify your profile by leaving a steamy description of your services and to confirm you are who you say you are.
A service advisor in the motor trade, Johnny has a long list of preferences and enjoys everything from dogging to threesomes, voyeurism to cuckolding – he prefers the company of ‘juicy big booty chicks’, not of men that try to contact him.
“Females and couples have more luck on Fab Swingers. I’m pretty vanilla, no real kinks. Just big bums, tums and boobs do it for me.”
Johnny has met up with several couples – most recently in a cuckolding session where he slept with someone’s wife, as the man watched.
Sabine* became a member after her boyfriend, Paul*, confessed he had a ‘secret wife’ fantasy and wanted to watch her to get with other men.
But he never expected her to fall in love, which is exactly what happened, when he asked her to meet with Jared* for a casual sex session.
“I met up with two guys both in their early 20s,” Sabine told the Sun Online. ” I hadn’t been with anyone except my boyfriend and my ex before that, so it was a strange feeling.
“With the first guy, I took pictures and videos that we sent to Paul. The second meet up, with Jared, was different – I fell for him, and my boyfriend noticed that I had become distant so we decided not to use the site anymore.
“But I couldn’t ignore my feelings and still chatted to Jared over Snapchat. Eventually, he broke up with his long-term girlfriend and I broke up with Paul. We kept seeing each other for seven months.
Elliott*, 42, works in facilities management and has been a member for almost a decade. He’s married, but the pair aren’t able to have sex because his wife has a medical condition.
She agreed that he could sign up to fulfil his sexual needs, and Elliott has now slept with over 20 people from the site, many of whom have provided very high praise on his profile.
One woman described Elliott as “truly a pleasure, in all aspects of the word”, while another said he has “strong hands that hit all the right spots”. He has 14 positive verifications in total.